Episode 45: 5 Tips for Navigating Singleness on Valentine's Day
If you're single and dreading "that" day coming around the corner... this episode is dedicated specifically to you.
This is also our first-ever "solo episode," in which I (Grace) share some of my own personal journey of navigating singleness (especially around Valentine's Day), including:
The very real challenges of being "content in singleness" in a world that glorifies romance
My own journey & reflections amidst so-called "waiting seasons" with God
5 Practical Tips for what to do with uncomfortable / mixed emotions that often come up
Biblical vs. secular self-love & why it matters
Managing the tensions of having longings AND trusting God
Episode 44: Are Your Dreams From GOD? LIVE Dream Interpretation, New Age to New Creation, & More with Elani
Today, Grace sits down with her good friend Elani to dive into the series of unexpected events (including supernatural dreams) that brought her out of depression, suicidal thoughts, and the occult - and into healing, joy, and freedom way beyond what she ever thought possible.
Join us as Elani shares about coming out of New Age curiosities and a snippet of her journey of finding the real God through dreams, encounters with both heaven and hell, and testing out different world religions to ultimately discover and be forever changed by the one true God.
We also delve into how to tell between a "bad pizza" dream and a "God dream," AND go through a spontaneous LIVE interpretation of dreams that Alex and Grace had literally the night before this recording!
We pray this candid conversation encourages, challenges, and perhaps stretches your perspective - and ultimately empowers you to seek and know God more.
Episode 43: EXCLUSIVE: Ben Chung (Jabbawockeez, Kinjaz) on Purpose in Pain, Dance & Faith, God's Timing
Ben Chung has been a member of the world-famous dance crew the Jabbawockeez, (who rose to fame for winning the first season of ABDC) and later went on to co-found Kinjaz—both of which have become two of the biggest influences and leading innovators in the modern dance world.
He’s a dancer, podcaster, entrepreneur, and more… but more than all that, he’s a follower of Jesus who’s unafraid to use his real and raw stories and lessons learned to inspire others.
We pray it leaves you encouraged to see God’s purpose in your own story—no matter how unconventional, messy, or non-linear it may seem—and to not be held back by fear, but to boldly GO for the dreams and passions God’s leading you towards!
Episode 42: Your Phone Is Secretly DESTROYING Your Life… But You Can Change That! - Joey Odom
Are you tired of devices CONTROLLING your life and attention, INTERRUPTING your focus, and DISTRACTING you from the moments and people who matter most?
In this eye-opening conversation, we sit down with Joey Odom, Co-Founder of Aro: a revolutionary product that leverages the science of habit formation and motivational design to liberate you from the clutches of your phone - so that you stop missing out on what's truly important.
Episode 41: We have a LIFE UPDATE! & Testimony (IN-PROGRESS)...
We wanted to share the real, raw, behind-the-scenes, in-progress testimony (that's STILL unfolding) of a personal life update (and what led up to it), including a few of the lessons God's been teaching us in the process, in hopes that it might encourage you in your own journey, too…
Episode 40: From $7 To Giving AWAY $1 MILLION: TRUE Financial Freedom with Bob & Linda Lotich (SeedTime Money)
Bob Lotich found himself at his breaking point in his early 20’s overwhelmed by debt and stranded 1,000 miles from home with only $7 to his name.
After crying out to God for wisdom and discovering a simple Biblically-inspired formula, he reached a level of financial freedom he never dreamed possible: having a paid-off house by age 31 and even reaching a personal goal of giving $1 million AWAY by age 40.
Today, we're excited to share this "rich" conversation on the intersection of faith and finances - and seeing the "impossible" become reality - with Bob and Linda Lotich: the power duo behind SeedTime Money who help people live financially free and impact eternity through simplifying, automating, multiplying, and faithfully stewarding the resources entrusted to them.
If you want to discover practical steps for REAL financial freedom based on God's truth AND practical tools - as well as cultivate a faith-filled AND financially empowered legacy aligned with God's Kingdom purposes... you do NOT want to miss this episode.
Episode 39: How To Have A HEALTHY Relationship with Health! Faith & Fitness with Matt Huffman (The Ark Fit)
What does it look like to honor God in our pursuit of health and fitness?
Why is it so much harder to value health and wellness for some versus others?
How can we set and stick to our 2024 health goals, without falling into the trap of *unhealthy* obsession?
Today, join us for testimonies and lessons guaranteed to inspire you from Matt Huffman, the Owner of The Ark Fit and fellow Christian entrepreneur based in Orange County, California.
Tune in for invaluable wisdom, POWERFUL stories, and keys that will help you make 2024 your HEALTHIEST year yet!
Episode 38: How To Set Your 2024 Goals & Work WITH God - with Shae Bynes (Co-Founder of Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur)
What does it look like to partner WITH God in our work and lives? How do we discern between faith vs. foolishness? How do we ensure our goals are aligned with God's desires for our lives?
Today, we dive into all of this (and more) with Shae Bynes, Co-Founder of Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur, who shares POWERFUL testimonies and wisdom guaranteed to fuel your faith!
Join us in unpacking not just working FOR God but WITH him, practical examples of Spirit-led strategies and decisions, why God allows uncertainty, and the key to overcoming fear to truly follow God wholeheartedly.
This is one of our FAVORITE episodes to date - we hope it blesses you!
Episode 37: How To Disagree With Love & Survive Difficult Family Gatherings with Kathy Khang, Co-Author of “Loving Disagreement”
When should we speak up, vs. just "let it go"? How do we love and honor both others AND ourselves well, even in the midst of conflict? How can we equip ourselves to navigate difficult conversations during the holidays?
Today, we sit down for a thought-provoking conversation with Kathy Khang, co-author of Loving Disagreement: Fighting for Community through the Fruit of the Spirit with Matt Mikalatos (recently named Book of the Year 2023 by The Englewood Review of Books).
Join Grace & Kathy as they dive into cultural & generational nuances that affect how we approach conflicts and resolution, specifically with their own personal experiences as Asian American Christian women (and why that matters).
We also explore how to live out the fruits of the Spirit amidst conflict, practical wisdom and tips on how to love and honor others amidst disagreement (for those who need a survival guide for challenging family dynamics - especially during the holidays!), and learning to embrace the messy journey along the way.
Episode 36: 3 UNFILTERED Lessons from 3 Years of Marriage | Triggers, Teamwork, Passive Asian Men
This week, on top of Alex's birthday, we're also celebrating our wedding anniversary!
Marriage has been one of the BEST gifts ever—but it's also not all sunshine and rainbows. In honor of this milestone, we thought we'd share 3 key lessons that have been HUGE for our relationship (but aren't often talked about) that we've learned so far in the past 3 years.
We are FAR from perfect, but we hope these personal examples of real-life challenges and what God's been teaching us through them can speak to you and help you wherever you're at—whether you're married, engaged, dating, or single and wanting to learn more about and prepare for marriage (HIGHLY recommend!).
Episode 35: *EMOTIONAL* Alex's Birthday Q&A | Legacy, Vulnerability, Meeting with Jesus
Next Friday (December 15) is... *drumroll*... Alex's birthday!! 🎉
We did a fun and juicy Q&A for Grace's birthday that many of you enjoyed, so today we're doing Birthday Q&A (Alex's Version)... Grab some tissues 🥹
We dive into what makes Alex tick, light up, and tear up 🥲
We hope that this reflective conversation is both entertaining and inspiring for you in your own life!
Episode 34: 8 Hours In HELL: Former Buddhist’s Near-Death Experience Brought Him to Jesus!
Steve Kang was a fervent Buddhist trying to reach Nirvana... But at the age of 19, after overdosing and believing he had no choice but to end his own life, he vividly experienced heaven and hell - and heard God's audible voice - which changed everything.
Join us as we unpack his story, which was featured in the recent film After Death (whose director we interviewed last week):
What led up to his near-death experience (and second NDE later)
What exactly hell and heaven looked, felt, even smelled like
The invaluable insights and lessons that have completely changed not only his whole life - but also his family and countless others in his life.
Episode 33: What Happens After We Die? Lessons From Near-Death Experiences with Stephen Gray, Director of "After Death"
We are thrilled today to have a very special guest with us to unpack one of life's biggest questions (yet one that is far too often ignored): What happens when we die?
From investigating thousands of near-death experiences, After Death is a film from Angel Studios that explores the spiritual and scientific dimensions of mortality with the guidance of New York Times bestselling authors, medical experts, scientists, & survivors & sheds light on what awaits us after death.
Today we sit down with the director, Stephen Gray, to talk about key insights from 4,000 recorded NDEs (near-death experiences), his approach to understanding & portraying descriptions of heaven and hell on screen, as well as how to interpret near-death experiences in light of the Bible and life's mysteries.
We hope this conversation encourages you and leaves you with a fresh perspective not only on the implications of death... but also the implications of how we're meant to live.
Episode 32: 5 Practical Tips to Break Free From Depression (“I’m Christian & I Have Depression” Pt. 2)
Today, we're diving into Part 2 of a topic that's been close to our hearts and highly requested by our listeners: the intersection of faith and depression.
Depression can often be an overwhelming, paralyzing, and isolating experience.
It's easy to feel so stuck in the darkness, tempted to believe that there is "no way out," and that we're powerless to our thoughts and emotions.
Our goal with this episode is not to add more weight to your burden - but simply to be your friends from afar, to come alongside you and encourage you with truth.
The truth that you aren't alone. The truth that there IS hope and light ahead of you. That there is absolutely nothing - not even the depths of depression and despair - that can separate you from God's presence, power, and unimaginable love for you.
Ultimately, we hope these 5 tangible tips equip and EMPOWER you to take a small, courageous, intentional step towards powerfully pursuing the freedom and healing AVAILABLE for you - even in the midst of your struggles.
Because your feelings are valid, but they are not the truth.
We pray that this conversation lovingly reminds you of what's true for you today.
Episode 31: 3 Myths About Depression + Our Personal Experiences ("I'm Christian & I Have Depression" Pt. 1)
Is it normal to have depression as a Christian? Did people in the Bible ever experience depression? And what do we do when we find ourselves in a dark and hopeless place, DESPITE knowing all the "Christian truths"?
Today we're sharing part 1 of 2 on the topic of faith and depression. We talk about our own personal experiences - from years ago, but also even more recently leading up to this episode release. We dive into the unspoken challenges so many of us (including biblical heroes and giants of faith) face, 3 common myths about depression that many people (including Christians) have, and what we've personally found to be helpful in how to view and think about depression - either for ourselves or for those around us suffering through it.
If you or someone you love struggle with depression: you are not alone.
You are valuable, worthy, and loved no matter what you're experiencing right now.
We pray that God uses this conversation to speak hope into your heart, and strength to keep on going.
Episode 30: What People Don't Tell You About Grieving - with Natasha Smith
How do we grieve healthily AND find real hope?
We often associate grief with the loss of a loved one, or perhaps a serious tragedy. But grief is much more common (and normal) than we think. It’s a natural part of life’s transitions, unexpected hurts, and a wide variety of challenges.
And yet, most of us were never taught how to grieve well. Instead, we default to pushing our hard emotions to the side and fight to stay “positive” and “have more faith.”
Because deep down, we’re afraid of being so overwhelmed by our losses - that we lose ourselves in the process.
Today, we sit down with Natasha Smith, author of Can You Just Sit with Me?: Healthy Grieving for the Losses of Life. Through her personal journey of navigating 30+ years of painful losses, she shares insights on why healthy grieving matters, as well as how to allow grief to draw us closer to God rather than pull us away.
We also dive into the unspoken aspects of grief and uncomfortable emotions, from "invisible grief" that usually gets overlooked, to managing the tension of grieving honestly WHILE putting our faith in God at the same time.
As Natasha writes, it’s not a matter of getting OVER grief - but of allowing God to help you THROUGH it.
Let’s dive into what that looks like - and step into practical ways of finding hope and healing, even in the midst of real pain and disappointment.
Episode 29: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween? 3 Questions to Ask
Ever wonder if it's okay for Christians to celebrate Halloween?
It's a question that sometimes comes up in the back of our minds, but one that most of us usually just ignore.
For some, Halloween is just harmless fun with candy and costumes. For others, Halloween is associated with spiritual darkness and should be avoided at all costs.
We believe God invites us to engage with him and do things out of conviction and intention (rather than passivity and ignorance), so it’s worth the thought and conversation to understand WHY we as believers choose to participate (or NOT participate) in any activity–including Halloween.
We invite you to join us with an open mind and heart as we dive into the nuances of Halloween (and other popular celebrations / activities) and faith – and hope you'll find clarity and ideas for how to honor and glorify God in ALL that you do.
Episode 28: For The Person Who’s Doubting Their Faith
What do you do when you aren’t sure if you even believe in God anymore?
“Is Jesus truly worth following? Is God even real? What if this Christianity stuff is all made up?”
We often think of doubt as a bad thing—a hindrance to faith. But what if doubt is actually a vital element of what real faith is?
In this episode, we share our personal journeys and testimonies of walking through doubt, despair, and seeming hopelessness—3 powerful takeaways we still carry with us today.
If you’re questioning your faith, or know someone who is, this episode is for you.
We pray that it gives you comfort knowing you’re not alone, along with strength and hope to keep going.
Episode 27: Is It BAD To Have Desires? (How To Manage The Tension Between DESIRE & SURRENDER)
Do you ever feel bad "wanting" something, when the Bible tells us "I shall not want"?
Join us as we unravel common misconceptions about desire that many Christians hold, share 4 practical tips to help you discern whether your desires align with God's plan, and 3 MORE tips (based on what we've learned ourselves) to help you "hold the tension" of reflecting on your honest desires AND trusting God's goodness and faithfulness.
Episode 26: What Do I Do When My Prayers STILL Aren't Answered? (5 UNEXPECTED Gifts Of UNANSWERED Prayers)
How do we stand strong in faith, while honestly grappling with unanswered prayers - and all the complex emotions, doubts, and internal tensions that come with them?
Tune in as we share our personal experiences, including Grace journeying through this in singleness and Alex's struggles in less-than-ideal job situations.
Then we unpack five hidden blessings we’ve personally gleaned in these seasons that can be easily overlooked… but once we pay attention to them, we realize are key to our own transformation.
We also share practical tips for how to “wait well” and take care of your heart, mind, and soul when you’re still in the season of “not yet.”
If you're feeling discouraged or find yourself in waves of doubt because of the dreams or desires that haven’t come to fruition yet… you are NOT alone.
We pray this conversation encourages you and equips you with perspectives and tools for greater hope, strength, and endurance to keep going.